-How does the girl in the story feel about interacting with her neighbors?
The girl in the story feels strange about interacting with her neighbors because of different eating manners between Western and Eastern. For example, when Lin’s family invited Gleason’s family for dinner, they felt funny about Western people’s eating habits. In her friend Meg’s plate, it was piled with food; The sweet-and-sour meat pushed right against the chicken shreds, and the chicken sauce ran into the prawns. So, Meg had been taking food from a second dish before she finished eating her helping from the first because of mixed food.
-How does she feel about her family? Why?
In the story, she felt embarrasing of her family because of the different eating manners. For example, when Lin’s family was invited in Gleason’s dinner, they never ate celery without pulling the strings out of stalks. So, Lin’s family pulled out the strings of the stalks and the sound was loud and funny. Hence, Gleason’s family couldn’t understand Lin family’s habit.
-Meg’s comment that “all American slurp” hints at the story’s theme. What do you think the theme, or message is?
It is different between Western and Eastern eating manners but the analogy between Western and Eastern eating manners are that they all slurp when they are eating.









